Respond to an angry customer and de-escalate
De-escalates an upset customer, owns the issue, and offers a concrete resolution.
The prompt
Help me respond to an upset customer.
Channel: [email / chat / phone / public review / social comment]
What the customer said: [PASTE]
What actually happened (our side): [FACTS]
What I'm able to offer: [refund, replacement, credit, escalation, explanation]
Policy limits: [WHAT I CAN'T DO]
Write a response that:
1. Acknowledges their frustration specifically (not "we apologize for any inconvenience").
2. Takes ownership where we're at fault, without blaming the customer or making excuses.
3. Explains what happened briefly and honestly.
4. Gives a concrete resolution and timeline, or clear options.
5. Ends with a direct way to reach me.
For phone calls, give talking points plus phrases to use if they escalate. For public replies, keep it short and move details to a private channel.
Highlighted [brackets] are blanks to replace with your own details.
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What to fill in
- email / chat / phone / public review / social comment
- PASTE
- FACTS
- refund, replacement, credit, escalation, explanation
- WHAT I CAN'T DO
How this prompt is built
This prompt follows the RTF structure (Role, Task, Format). RTF tells the model who to be, what to do and what shape the answer should take. It is the quickest structure that still gives noticeably better results than a bare request.
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