Write a dating profile that sounds like me
An honest, specific dating profile with a bio, prompt answers, and photo tips that attract compatible matches.
The prompt
Help me write a dating profile.
App(s) and character limits: [e.g. "Hinge, 150 characters per prompt" or "any, no limit known"]
What I'm looking for: [e.g. "long-term relationship", "something casual", "open to seeing"]
About me (raw notes): [JOB, HOBBIES, WHAT A GOOD WEEKEND LOOKS LIKE, QUIRKS, VALUES]
Things that matter in a partner: [DEALBREAKERS AND MUST-HAVES]
How friends would describe me: [3-5 WORDS OR A QUOTE]
Prompt questions I need to answer (if any): [PASTE THEM]
My tone: [e.g. "dry humor", "warm", "nerdy"]
My current profile (optional): [PASTE]
Rules:
- Use specifics, not cliches. Replace "I love to travel and laugh" with a concrete detail.
- Give people an easy thing to message me about in each answer.
- Stay honest. Don't add hobbies, achievements, or traits I didn't mention.
- Be clear about what I'm looking for, without a list of demands or negativity.
- Sound like a real person talking, in the tone I chose.
Return:
1. Two bio options within the limits.
2. Answers to my prompt questions (two options each).
3. Photo checklist: which kinds of photos to include and what to avoid.
4. Three opening messages I could send to someone based on a detail in their profile.
Add a short safety note: meet in public first, tell a friend where I'll be, and don't share my address, workplace, or financial details early. Flag anyone who asks for money or moves fast to another app as a likely scam.
Highlighted [brackets] are blanks to replace with your own details.
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What to fill in
- JOB, HOBBIES, WHAT A GOOD WEEKEND LOOKS LIKE, QUIRKS, VALUES
- DEALBREAKERS AND MUST-HAVES
- PASTE THEM
- e.g. "dry humor", "warm", "nerdy"
- PASTE
How this prompt is built
This prompt follows the Few-Shot structure (Few-shot prompting). A few-shot prompt includes one or more worked examples of the input and the output you want, so the model can copy the pattern instead of guessing it.
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