Ask a lender for help when I can't make a payment
A calm call script and follow-up note to request a hardship plan, due-date change, or fee waiver before falling behind.
The prompt
Help me contact a lender or company because I can't make a payment on time.
Who I owe: [credit card / car loan / student loan / mortgage / utility / medical provider]
Amount due and due date: [DETAILS]
What happened: [e.g. "reduced hours", "medical bills", "unexpected repair" - share only what I'm comfortable with]
What I can realistically pay now and over the next few months: [AMOUNTS]
Have I already missed a payment? [no / yes, how many]
Give me:
1. The options I can ask about for this type of debt (for example: hardship program, payment plan, due-date change, deferment or forbearance, income-driven plans, late-fee waiver) with a plain-language note on the trade-offs of each, such as added interest.
2. A short call script: who to ask for, how to explain my situation briefly, the specific request, and questions to ask ("Will this be reported to the credit bureaus?", "Does interest keep growing?", "What happens when the plan ends?").
3. A follow-up email or letter confirming what we agreed.
4. A simple record template: date, person's name, what was offered, reference number.
5. Red flags: pressure to pay with gift cards or unusual methods, or a "debt relief" company asking for big upfront fees.
Tone: honest and steady, not apologetic. This is general information; for serious or multiple debts, suggest I contact a reputable nonprofit credit counselor.
Highlighted [brackets] are blanks to replace with your own details.
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What to fill in
- DETAILS
- AMOUNTS
- no / yes, how many
How this prompt is built
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